I knew my dad had been working on renovating our kitchen and replacing our upstairs bathtub. It was great to see those in person after all of the photo updates along the way. But, what I didn't know was that those were not the only projects my parents had been tackling. I was led into our family room to find a surprise- a door! It may not seem exciting, but the only way to the backyard before was down a flight of stairs and out three doors. Yes, THREE! One out of the house to the garage, one out of the garage into a shed behind the garage, and then finally one to the outside. With a dog and kids, that was going to be a pain. But my parents (and family!) added a door and a small deck and set of stairs from our family room to our beautiful backyard. I tried out our new door and walked outside to find another surprise: a vegetable garden! Every year I have shared my attempts at vegetable gardening here on the blog, so most of you should know how much this surprise meant to me. It was my "belated" birthday gift from my parents (I say belated since my birthday was in May, but I know they began work before my birthday). When we finally met a few of our neighbors they told us how my parents had been here almost every day. They said, "you have some amazing parents!" And you bet I know it!
![]() |
| Cooking our first meal in the new kitchen: tacos, of course! |
![]() |
| Enjoying the new tub! They're loving the detachable shower head for rinsing their hair- first time Drew hasn't cried during hair-washing! |
![]() |
| New door! |
![]() |
| Birthday garden |
![]() |
| Birthday garden only 3 weeks later- it's thriving! |
![]() |
| I couldn't even wait to take a picture before digging in |
We spent a few more nights at my parent's house while we spent the days working on unpacking our house enough to be livable. I had a lot of help from my mom and my grandma (who was visiting from Canada) as they helped unpack and/or watch and entertain the boys. We finally "moved in" on June 25th. We had some rough nights and early mornings with the boys as they adjusted, but they now seem to be settling in nicely, and very much enjoying their new space. I think the large backyard (mixed with non-sweltering temps!) has definitely been the highlight for them.
![]() |
| Popsicles under our pear tree |
![]() |
| Dancing by the garden |
Amid all the chaos, my little boys are blossoming, though. For those out there with young ones, I'm here to tell you, it does get easier. While Drew is making himself his own lunches and begging to help unload the dishwasher and clean up after meals, James is working on potty-training himself (with reluctant parents- we're too busy for this right now!), and is all too happy to copy whatever his big brother is doing.
The part I'm struggling with the most is the unpacking. Most people said they hate packing, but unpacking is the fun part. I have to disagree. Don't get me wrong, I hate packing, too, but unpacking means I have to decide where everything is going to go. For someone who is OCD and indecisive, this is a very painful process. Added to that is the fact that there are so many little things that need to get done before boxes can be unpacked. For example, all of our closets needed shelving of some kind. The boys' rooms had no clothing racks or shelving at all. Ours didn't have enough. Storage closets needed shelving. So in order to unpack quite a few boxes, shelving had to be purchased and installed first. We're moving along slowly, but I'm guessing boxes will be hanging around for at least another 2-3 months and that's probably being generous.
Next up: Fun with family, friends, and new neighbors



.jpg)





